How to Believe?

“Just take the leap of faith!” “You do not need to understand, just believe.” “Faith can move mountains!” Really? When we talk about believing and having faith, these are some of the most commonly used phrases we hear. How does one come to believe in something? The Bible shows us. “How then will they call

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I Can Control My Actions

Who would like to follow someone who follows only his emotions? When Cain’s rage overwhelmed his emotions, he allowed his emotions to control him. A wise man will learn to control his actions! Last week, we talked about how I, as a person, need to have a healthy inner being. This implies that we can

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How to Achieve Your Desired Outcome

There are days when some small things make me feel that the whole day is ruined! “Good morning!” “What’s so good about the morning? I had a lousy night, so just say Morning!” I snap. If today, something has affected your mood and made you snappy, remember that the morning will still continue to be

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I Do Not Know….

As a parent, I am inclined to point out my child’s mistakes. “Your teacher called me and said you forgot to do your homework?” “The teacher didn’t say we needed to do it!” “Did you forget to close the fridge door again?” “Nope, wasn’t me (answers my child while sipping milk).” This sets my brain

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Should Consent Be Like Tea?

If both parties consent to having a sexual relationship, does this make it ok? Worldwide, the law protects minors. In Singapore, anyone who has a sexual relationship with a minor below the age of 16 years commits a sexual offence, even if it is ‘consensual’. Clearly, the law protects minors, because of the exploitative possibilities

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God’s Order of Creation

In an article by The Telegraph dated 3 September 2012, the title read “ Sydney’s Anglican Church introduces a wedding vow by the bride to ‘submit’ to her husband. Critics claim it is sexist. I am reminded of my own ROM (Registry of Marriages) party when my husband and I got married. We had engaged

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